Most of our popular ideas about how love comes into our lives are clustered around the concept of seeking it outside of ourselves. We are searching for love and hoping to find The One. We are people who are seeking the right man or woman for us as romantic partners. When we do happen to discover or stumble upon the right person, we assume that we will be ready to give and receive love in a relationship.

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